The older I get, the less I believe that most men wake up one day and consciously choose the direction their lives eventually take. Looking back at my own life, some of the biggest changes didn’t happen because of a single decision. They happened because of a hundred small ones that seemed insignificant at the…
When I look back over the years, and even more recently, there have been times when I felt like I was carrying ten different versions of myself around at the same time. You know what I am talking about! There was the version of me trying to be a good husband. The version of trying…
A few years ago, if you had asked me what I wanted God to do in my life, my answer would have been pretty simple. I wanted Him to fix the things that were causing pain. I wanted Him to remove the uncertainty, resolve the conflict, answer the questions, and bring some clarity to situations…
There seems to be a heaviness that many men are carrying today. You can hear it in conversations, see it in the way men talk about their lives, and feel it in the constant frustration that seems to sit just below the surface. Some of that weight comes from responsibility. Some comes from disappointment. Some…
If you’re here, there’s a good chance you’ve felt it too. The world seems to move faster every year. Expectations are constantly changing. The noise never stops. Men are told a thousand different things about who they should be, what they should value, and how they should live. Somewhere along the way, many of us…